Affirmation of Families


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Q-4

Will the parents of the bride and the parents of the groom please stand. _______________ and __________________, you have nurtured and cared for ______________ in a multitude of ways. Likewise ___________________ and___________________, you have nurtured and cared for _______________. Today we express gratitude for the inspiration of your love that enabled you to bring forth your children for us all to know and enjoy. As you have held them close, fitting them for maturity, will you now willingly and freely release them to love and care for each other? And will you support and encourage their life together that it, too, may be a blessing for generations to come? (Response in unison: We do.)

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Q-5

That couple is richly blessed who comes to the marriage altar with the blessing of family and friends. Will the parents of the bride and the groom please stand? ________ and ________, it was your joy to give birth to ________ and to nurture her in her years of childhood and growing maturity. You have invested your love and joy in her. Do you now give your blessing to her marriage?

________ and ________, it was your joy to give birth to ________ and to nurture him through his childhood and into maturity. You have invested your love your joy in him. Do you now give your blessing to his marriage?

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Q-6

Parents are very special to a bride and groom. They have helped shape life to this point. Their continued love and support are needed. We want to give the parents of both the bride and groom the opportunity to publicly affirm your relationship.

Groom's parents: We welcome ________ into our family and give our blessing to this marriage.

Bride's parents: We affirm your relationship, welcome ________ into our family, and give our blessing to your marriage.

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Q-8

As ________ and ________ become husband and wife, they leave their separate family units to create a new one. As their parents, your relationship with them enters a new phase. They are still your children, but they are also adults creating a new family unit. As their parents, how do you greet the new relationship into which they are entering?

Groom's Father: We are glad you have chosen each other.

Groom's Mother: We welcome ________ into our family.

Bride's Mother: We welcome ________ into our family.

Bride's Father: We bless your marriage with our approval and support.

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Q-9

Will you, ________ and ________'s parents, now give them your blessing and pledge them the love and support they need? Will you share your experiences and wisdom with them in a caring and sensitive way?

Parents: We are glad that they have chosen each other. Their acceptance of the responsibility of marriage marks for us a new phase in our relationship with them. We celebrate their growing relationship, as well as the new possibilities in our relationship with them. We bless their marriage with our approval.

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Q-10

Family and friends, the rhythm of life seems to demand a time for holding and a time for releasing what is held close. Mr. and Mrs. ________ have nurtured and cared for their daughter in a multitude of ways. Likewise, Mr. and Mrs. ________ through their love have nurtured and cared for their son. Mr. and Mrs. ________ and Mr. and Mrs. ________, we who now know ________ and ________, express gratitude for the inspiration of your love that enabled you to bring forth your children for us all to know and enjoy. As you have held them close, fitting them for maturity, will you now willingly and freely release them to love and care for each other? And will you support and encourage their life together that it, too, may be a blessing for generations to come?

The parents respond;Yes, we do.

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When a man and woman marry, they form a new family unit. The Gospel of Mark states it this way, "From the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh." (Mark 10:6-8)

A man and a woman leave their respective homes, but they do not leave their relationships with their parents and families. These relationships take on a new dimension. It is important for the bride and groom to feel the support of their parents. And so we ask the parents of both bride and groom, do you give your blessing to this marriage?

Both sets of parents: We give our blessing to this marriage

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Q-12

Will you, the families of this couple, give your blessing to ________ and ________? Will you support them and love them no matter what happens? Will you, while respecting their independence, try, with the greatest love and wisdom you command, to do all you can to help them grow as persons and in relationship?

Parents, or the entire family, reply;We will.